The Road to Your Dreams is the High-Road | Effective Personal Productivity

The Road to Your Dreams is the High-Road | Effective Personal Productivity

by | Feb 7, 2022 | Blogs

The Road to Your Dreams is the High-Road | All about your Effective Personal Productivity

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When chasing your dreams, you will be confronted with obstacles, and some come in the form of people who tell you that your dream is not realistic or plausible.

Some of the people who will tell you this might be people who you are close to and have considered well-wishers.

That’s the funny thing about the naysayers, some come with good intensions and some just advice out of their own insecurities.

Regardless, of where the intent lies, the whispers of doubt bring us down. They make us question our dreams, what’s worse, they make us second guess ourselves.

Here is where you must tap into your inner wisdom. Visualize the dream, see it as a reality and rationalize your ability to make it happen.

Let your inner wisdom drown out the noise of the naysayers. Let it sing loud till all those whispers fade away.

Society and culture have taught us to value validation that comes from others in order believe in ourselves. Seek praise from teachers, peers, officials and even parents to be confident in our own abilities. Our minds have a unique ability to value what we hear from others and shape the way we think and feel about ourselves.

It sounds crazy when we think about it but keeping the faith alive a continuous effort, believing in your dreams when other tell you to walk a different part is hard work.

So how do we do it?

The answer is simple: Work on your dream. Covert every seed of doubt into the fuel you need to keep at it.

Research and chart out a course that will get you one step closer to making your dream and reality, and once you take that step, figure out the next.

You don’t always need to go every single aspect of making your dream your reality but at every stage, if you just figure out what the next step is, you be well on your way and before you know it, you’ll reach your destination, your dream.

This process helps your put the pieces of the puzzle together and it helps you reinforce the belief that You can do it.

Your thoughts will soon be filled with motivation from the best and most trusted source: YOU.

As Marianne Williamson wrote, ‘And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give people the permission to do the same, as we are liberated from our own fears, our presence automatically liberates others.’

When you live the ‘yes, I can’ philosophy, you will find more and more people coming forward to support you and believe in you.

They will see your vision they may even share it. You will inspire those who might have dreamt your dream once but never acted on it the way you have, to join you.

You will be able to build a group of people who will be able to help you in your endeavor. The resounding support will soon outweigh the doubt.

Don’t be surprised if the once naysayers get converted into full-blown believers.

So, keep at it even in the face of negativity. Remember you are born to shine bright. You are Born to Win.

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Stop the Wait and Self Motivate | Personal Productivity Improvement

Stop the Wait and Self Motivate | Personal Productivity Improvement

by | Feb 3, 2022 | Blogs

Stop the Wait and Self Motivate | All About your Personal Productivity Improvement

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We’re often told to stay motivated to achieve our goals and make our dreams come true. Basically Personal Productivity Improvement is the basic thing for self motivate.

So, what is motivation? The word motivation is the amalgamation of ‘Motive’ and ‘Action’.

When our actions are guided by and cater to our motive, we give rise to our motivation. Your motivation can come from different sources.

The first is external motivation which is largely driven by the idea of an incentive or reward. Common examples of this is in a corporate set up is the incentive of a bonus, increment, promotion gets you to work hard.

You may have experienced this growing up too, where performing well in your exams would have gotten you a gift from your parents.

You might also find that you give yourself a few incentives to look forward to – workout 6 days a week to earn a cheat day.

External motivation also comes in the form of fear of loss. The threat of losing out on a job, a love interest, a status symbol, etc. also gives you a reason to keep at it.

Both reward and loss can be very powerful. However, they often depend on factors beyond your control. They are tied to the ‘other’.

Someone will give you a reward for achieving your goal, someone will punish you for not making your dream a reality.

Seems odd that your dream becomes attached to the validation or condemnation of others. So, while powerful, external motivation is short-lived and temporary at best.

At Born to Win we believe that way key to keep yourself motivated is self-motivation. The kind that comes from the heart.

The kind that keeps you going not for a reward or punishment, but because your dream is much bigger than that.

We encourage self-motivation because when it comes to your dream, you are the custodian, you are the cheerleader, and you are the one that will make it a reality because it brings you happiness and satisfaction.

Now lies the question, how do you keep yourself motivated from within?

First, start by focusing on the joy you get from the process of working on your dream.  Allow yourself to celebrate the little steps and the big strides you make along the way.

Share your achievements with your trusted few, it’ll fuel your confidence and encourage you to tread on.

Find the fun in the hard work, and when things get hard, visualize the dream to remind yourself about the happiness you get from it.

Second, practice the attitude of gratitude. People spend years trying to figure out what their true calling is, some never find it. If you’ve got a dream and you truly are passionate about it, be grateful that you’ve found it altogether.

Be grateful that you have the chance and the opportunity to work towards it. Be thankful for those that have stood by you and encourage you, take the time to tell them their valued and it’ll make you feel stronger.

At the end of the day, when you’re on your way to making your dreams come true, it’s never a question of ‘if’ it’s always a question of ‘when’.

As Swami Vivekananda had said, “All power is within you; you can do anything and everything.

Believe in that, do not believe that you are weak; do not believe that you are half-crazy lunatics, as most of us do nowadays. You can do anything and everything, without even the guidance of any one. Stand up and express the divinity within you.”

So, start the process and you fill find that there is only one person who ca motivate you like none other and can keep you going in the long run and that person is you.

You are born to keep going, you are Born to Win.

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